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Play Hard To Get
Your Personal Guidebook on How to Play the Game of Love!

by Mimi Tanner, author of Calling Men
and Man Mistake Eraser

Hi - My name is Mimi Tanner.  Many people know me as the author of:

  "Calling Men - The Complete Guide to Calling, Emailing, and Texting the Men You Date"

  "Secrets of Flirting With Men"

  "Man Mistake Eraser - How to Regain a Man's Interest"

and other writings.  I have literally spent a lifetime studying the subject of MEN - and WOMEN - everything from flirting to attracting, chasing, being chased, falling in love, and why men and women fall in love. 

     I know what it takes to win a man's heart, and to win it back - and my advice has worked for literally thousands of women who write me every day to tell me about it. I hope you will read my daily email column and find out why so many women have learned so much about how to handle the men in their life - and even marry their Mr. Right, too - when the time is right.   

     Some people approach love with so many expectations and so much seriousness, and yet they wonder why they have one bad experience after another!

     So the first lesson in Hard To Get is to lighten up, if you happen to be one of the Serious Sad Sacks who expect your Prince to love you anyway, WARTS and all, "for yourself" - right now, the right way, and with no game playing whatsoever!

     FACT - if you're not playing the game of love, you're missing out on all the fun - and so is the love of your life! This is true whether you're single or you've been married for thirty years.  If you are in a relationship, or you want to be in a relationship, then you will be served best to get very, very good at the game of love.

"But Mimi, what about "manipulation??"

     Many people are against the idea of playing hard to get. They say it's wrong; it's manipulative; it's trickery of the worst order.

     First of all, I'm here to show you exactly why that is NOT true.

     Second, what those people are really afraid of is that playing hard to get will give you an "unfair advantage."  And you know what?  It will.

     Last time I checked, all was still fair in love and war.  I've got news for you - great news, in fact:

     There's nothing wrong with playing games when it comes to love - as long as your games are for the benefit of everyone concerned - the benefit right now, and the benefit for the rest of your life - the one you're going to spend together because you're both so in love with each other.

     Let the games begin! And when you play the game of love, be sure to play hard to get.

Be Hard To Get - or Easy To Forget

     Picture this.

     A man meets a woman.  He says, "You're a fine-looking woman. I'd like to go out with you and in about a year, we'll get married." She says, "Great! Works for me." 

     What's wrong with this picture?

     Would you watch a movie if this were the plot? Of course not!

     Why not?  Because it would be BORING!

     You wouldn't read a book like that, either. In fact, any book on love, whether it was published last week or 200 years ago - has more of a plot than that!

     So why would you want YOUR LOVE LIFE to be boring - when you can create memories and have fun - and still be true to your highest self?
 

Being Hard To Get in the Right Way

     So tell me - how do men perceive you right now?

     Are you the girl next door?  Are you his friend but you want to be more? 

     Are you the kind of woman a man loses sleep over, worrying about whether he'll win your heart?
 

What's "Hard To Get" All About?

  Exactly How to Be Hard To Get

  How To Work With Human Nature Instead of Against It

  Why You Shouldn't Act Like He's the One

  Why Intensity Matters So Much

  What Men Fear that Drives Them Away - and How To Avoid It

  The Chase - Why It Matters So Much to Both of You!

  Ultimatums (why you'll never need one, and Plan B if you DO need one)

  The "Reverse Ultimatum" - You won't have to say a word to him!

  Men Who Can't Say "I Love You"

  Why You Should NEVER Initiate the "Serious Talk" With Any Man

and much, much more!